Infidelity is one of the most cited reasons for divorce. Many affairs may be uncovered by early suspicions that cause a woman to become her own private investigator. According to The Huffington Post, there are several signs that can be indicators that your husband may be having an affair.
While all women love to have their husbands pay attention to them, a sudden change in his habits may indicate that he has something to hide. He may be calling more from the office, all of the sudden reporting every move that he makes with you, and he might be buying gifts all of the sudden. All of things are wonderful if this is typical behavior for him, if not, there may be something going on.If your usually reserved husband is all of the sudden replacing his ties and jackets with jeans and tee shirts, that may be an indicator that there is something else going on in another part of his life. He may be adapting himself to the likes of someone else. Is he wearing a new scent when it was previously hard to even get him to wear cologne? Your usually quiet husband might even take a sudden interest in a different kind of music. What you are looking for here is extremes.
One of the classic signs that a man may be cheating is if he all of the sudden starts accusing you of being unfaithful. This can happen for a couple of reasons, he may be feeling guilty about what he is doing, or he may be trying to take the focus from himself. After all, does a thief ever trust another person not to steal from him?
Unless you have caught him red handed, it is hard to prove that your husband is being unfaithful. Be wary of doing things such as hacking social media accounts and email because in some states those things are a breach of privacy. In that case, the evidence cannot be used by your Illinois divorce attorney.