According to a new survey by adults.co.uk, the cost of a divorce is the second most traumatic part of a marriage break-up.The website, aimed specifically at single people who have gone through a serious break-up, asked members which elements of their divorces they found were the hardest to deal with. Unsurprisingly, emotional turmoil was at the top of the list. Researchers were surprised to find, however, that the financial impact was rated the second biggest difficulty, even rated above childcare concerns.Third on the list, however, was guilt and concern over the children’s welfare. Fourth…