You’re about to separate from your spouse – you might even have gone through the preliminary steps – and it’s natural to want to look out for your own interests, especially if you anticipate the divorce getting hostile. But spending, hiding, or not declaring money, assets, and even smaller items like jewelry, precious metals, and bonds, can backfire and make a divorce longer and more hostile. Even reckless spending of money on gambling, fancy toys, or a new partner can be a huge mistake and may even count as dissipation.