Many people understand that if they can resolve their divorce fairly peacefully, it can help expedite their case so they can move forward in their new life. Unfortunately, acting politely and civilly to your spouse is often easier said than done when going through a divorce. Below are some tips on how you can try and reduce the amount of conflict in your divorce so that you do not hurt your case at any time during the process.
Getting a divorce is extremely emotional, but it is also a legal process and as such, you must follow the specific guidelines and requirements outlined by the law. The timelines that are set out in the law are sometimes frustrating, but it is best to recognize that there is nothing you can do about them. Failing to abide by the law will only hurt your case, so it is crucial that you follow your lawyer’s advice and do your part by submitting the requested documents and other information as quickly as possible.
It is true that some arguments must be raised during the divorce process, and you should never give in to a term your spouse wants simply because you want the process finished. However, it is just as important that you do not fight over every single term. Arguments will only delay the process and cost you more in the end. Instead, prioritize your goals at the beginning of the process and know which terms you are willing to fight for, and which ones you are willing to compromise on.
There is a chance that your spouse will pick fights, make threats, or engage in other bad behavior. Even more so, they may try to bait you into engaging into bad behavior yourself. It is crucial that you do not fall for these tactics. If your spouse wants to fight over child custody, property division, or any other term, it is much better to take the matter to the court and allow them to decide. Lowering yourself to your spouse’s level will only make you look bad, and hurt your case.
The best way to deal with your spouse when going through a divorce is to not have to deal with them at all. Many of the disputes that arise during the divorce are a result of the two spouses involved talking to each other. Let your lawyer communicate with your spouse on your behalf. A lawyer will never fall for the tactics your spouse tries, will not engage in arguments, and will never say anything that hurts your case.
At the Law Office of Martoccio & Martoccio, our experienced Hinsdale family lawyers know what issues may present themselves during your divorce, and we will provide the sound legal advice you need to overcome them. Call us today at 630-920-8855 or contact us online to schedule a free initial consultation with one of our knowledgeable attorneys.
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https://www.ilga.gov/legislation/ilcs/ilcs4.asp?ActID=2086&ChapterID=59&SeqStart=6000000&SeqEnd=8300000