How to Make Visitation After a Divorce Easier

 Illinois divorce lawyerDivorce can be particularly difficult when children are involved. The good news is that parents can make life easier for them by collaborating and ensuring the visitation process is as positive as possible. Here are several tips that are sure to help make visitation after divorce easier.

Be On Time

You should never be late when you are visiting with your children. By being on time, you can show that you truly care about your children and value the time you get to spend with them. During your visit, make it clear that your children are your priority by ignoring any phone calls or text messages you may receive.

Do Not Argue

When you drop off or pick up your children, do not argue with your ex-spouse. The purpose of visitation is to give children a pleasant experience with their parent. Arguing with your ex-spouse during drop off or pick up can make your children feel uncomfortable and put a damper on visitation.

Create a Calendar

Both you and your ex-spouse should have a calendar in your home that is dedicated to your children. You should sit down with your children and figure out when they will be playing sports, on break from school, on vacation, etc. This way, you and your ex-spouse can better manage their schedule.

Be Flexible

It’s important to be as flexible as possible with your ex-spouse during visitation. For example, if they have to work late one day and cannot drop off your children at your house, tell your ex that you’ll pick them up.

Allow Your Children to Bring Comfort Items

An effective way to make visitation easier after divorce is to allow your children to bring blankets, teddy bears, dolls, and other comfort items back and forth between homes. This can help reduce anxiety and ensure a more positive visit.

Let Your Children Call the Other Parent

If your children spend a few days in your home, they may miss their other parent. In the event they wish to talk to them, don’t prohibit them from doing so. You would want to hear from your children if you haven’t seen them for a while.

Create a Welcoming Space

If you don’t have a separate bedroom for your children, you should create a welcome space for them to store their belongings and feel more welcome. You can do this in your den, basement, or another rarely used room.

Contact an Experienced DuPage County Divorce Attorney

If you have questions regarding visitation, you should contact our highly skilled Hinsdale divorce attorneys. Call us today at 630-920-8855.


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