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IL divorce lawyerEven when a divorce is mutual, the two people involved can become adversarial towards each other. Things can quickly change during a divorce case, and one side may start acting purely out of anger and frustration. When this is the case, it is important that you protect yourself by properly communicating with your spouse. This can prevent something as simple as a conversation from becoming used as evidence against you in your case.

Text and Email Whenever Possible

Using text and email during a divorce case can provide you with valuable evidence. These forms of communication will verify that you and your spouse have come to an agreement on a certain issue, or they can prove that the other side is abusive. Many people think that communicating by text or email is less personal, but this is exactly what helps keep hurt feelings out of conversations.

Do Not Always Reply Right Away

The other benefit of communicating by text or email is that you do not have to respond right away. During a divorce, something is bound to be said in the heat of the moment, particularly when discussing contentious terms such as child custody. Taking some time to cool off and think about how you should reply can be very beneficial, and help you get what you want in the end.

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IL divorce lawyerDivorce is sometimes a bitter and contentious legal battle, with each party fighting over every single term. It does not always have to be this way, though. In fact, in many cases, the couple is able to get through the process amicably and even co-parent their children civilly once they are apart. Although an amicable divorce is what most people strive for when they start the process, it is not the same thing as an uncontested divorce. From a legal standpoint, it is very important to understand the difference.

What Is an Uncontested Divorce?

An uncontested divorce is one in which the couple agrees to the terms of the divorce. They are able to enter into an agreement about property division, child support, maintenance, and all other terms. In an uncontested divorce, each party enters into the agreement without needing to go through mediation or litigation.

Uncontested divorces have many benefits for couples. The process is much shorter, and much less expensive, and gives the two spouses total control over the process. However, when a couple disagrees on even one term of the case, it then becomes a contested divorce, even if it is an amicable one.

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DuPage County divorce attorneyThough every divorce is different, and there is no one set way that can be used in all divorces, there are some general guidelines that can help make your divorce easier on you. The nature of divorce makes this period of time in your life difficult already, so figuring out ways that you can make it easier on everyone involved is a good idea. You may not even be aware that you are making these mistakes, but they can hinder the divorce and separation process. Here are five mistakes that you should try your best to avoid making:

1. Being Uninformed or Unprepared

If you are unaware of your financial situation, you are setting yourself up for failure. Before you begin the divorce process, you should make sure that you have access to all bank accounts and credit card accounts, as well as tax return information and investment accounts. You will want to make copies of all available financial records, such as tax returns, bank and credit card statements, loan documents, insurance policies, and deeds to real estate or vehicles.

2. Letting Your Emotions Guide You

Divorce dredges up many thoughts and feelings, so it can be difficult to take your emotions out of the process. It is completely normal to feel everything from grief to anger to resentment, but it is important that you do not let these emotions control your decisions. Seeing a counselor or therapist who specializes in divorce or family issues can help you work through those emotions in a healthy way.

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amicable-divorceDivorce is never easy. It is a difficult decision to dissolve any marriage and once a partner secretly makes the decision to consult with a qualified divorce attorney, it may be due time the secret is shared with an unsuspecting spouse. With divorce rates steadily holding at 3.6 percent for 1,000 individuals, 44 states reporting, including the District of Columbia, one would believe telling a spouse that a divorce is imminent would have become “old hat” by now, but as many divorce attorneys know, that is not often the case.

One of the most critical actions in defining the tone and course of the upcoming legal proceedings is how one spouse tells their partner of their decision to end the marriage. Many family advocates and mediators believe that divorce does not need to be a bad experience, negatively affecting everyone involved, and suggest those facing the dissolution of their marriage follow these key components for a good divorce:

One: The Beginning

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