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IL divorce lawyerMarriages often struggle because of a lack of communication, mutual goals, and intimacy. Financial stress, unrealistic expectations, and constant arguing are other top causes of divorce, yet sometimes these difficulties can be worked on to save the marriage before it is too late. In other circumstances, the marriage may be beyond repair. One study showed that the most common major contributors to divorce were lack of commitment, infidelity, and conflict or arguing, while the most common reasons for being the “final straw” were infidelity, domestic violence, and substance use.

Infidelity

Being cheated on is possibly the ultimate sign of disrespect in marriage. Illinois does not recognize “fault” in marriage, and infidelity generally has no bearing on decisions such as division of assets, child custody, or support orders. However, infidelity is the “final straw” in many marriages that were already struggling, as there is no way to trust that spouse again in the future.

Being in an Abusive Relationship or the Victim of Domestic Violence

Whether one spouse is physically, emotionally, or psychologically abusive, it is almost a certainty that the victim’s best option is to find a divorce attorney as soon as possible Reporting abuse to law enforcement for a restraining order may also be a necessary step to getting out of the abusive marriage. Common types of spousal abuse include the following:

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IL divorce lawyerWhen most people hear the word domestic violence, they think of physical and emotional abuse. However, financial abuse does not often come to mind. Financial abuse is a common yet overlooked type of domestic violence, which can make life a real challenge for a victim. Let’s take a closer look at the major warning signs of financial abuse.

1. No Control of Finances

Often, one spouse is better equipped to handle finances than the other and takes care of most of the family’s money management. Although this scenario is perfectly okay, sometimes, it can get out of hand. When one spouse takes complete control of the finances and prevents the other from accessing funds or information, there is an issue. If the spouse who is not involved in the family finances only pays cash for items and/or does not have access to a checkbook or credit card, financial abuse may be taking place.

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Illinois domestic violence attorney, Illinois family law attorney As the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) defines domestic violence as the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and or other forms of abusive behavior as part of a systematic pattern of power or control by one intimate partner against the other. The frequency and severity of domestic violence vary dramatically with one wondering if the abuse spikes over the stressful holiday season?

As the NCADV reports that one in three women or men will have experienced some form of physical or verbal abuse by a partner those caught in the cycle of abuse fear the holiday season for various reasons.

As families gather together to celebrate the season incidents of domestic abuse significantly rise as evident by the number of reports are filed with law enforcement.

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Illinois domestic violence attorney, Illinois family law attorneyJust under 250 miles from Chicago, Illinois, a local Greensburg, Indiana man had a plan, but instantaneously may have taken domestic violence crime one step beyond the norm. With an engagement ring in his possession, he visited his girlfriend’s home with the intention of proposing but when the woman replied negatively he grabbed a known firearm located in a bedroom nightstand and killed his girlfriend with one fatal shot to her temple. The man has since turned himself into the Greensburg police department and now stands accused of the fatal shooting of his girlfriend. As per the official affidavit, the investigation is ongoing with regard to intent, motive, and timeline.

This case may appear to deviate from the classic cycle of domestic abuse, but abuse can be defined as an indicated behavior that is inflicted upon a woman or a man by a person with whom she or he is involved in an intimate relationship. Although it has not been confirmed if there was a substantiated history or cycle of domestic abuse in this relationship, a recent American Medical Association (AMA) report states that every five years as many women are killed by their intimate partners - 54,000 - as there were lives lost during the entire Vietnam War.

It may be interesting to note the progression of this case. Perhaps a charge of manslaughter will be passed but it may also raise new questions regarding the definition of stricter gun control laws or perhaps a new adaptation of domestic violence definitions. No matter how this case will be prosecuted, for those residing the 250 miles west of Indiana in Illinois, established definitions and protection options are fully disclosed under the Illinois Domestic Violence Act of 1986 (750 ILCS 60).

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Illinois divorce attorney, Illinois domestic abuse lawyerOften overlooked, excused, or even blatantly denied, domestic abuse remains rampant across the United States despite recent awareness campaigns. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimates that every minute, 20 people, both male and female, experience some type of physical or psychological abuse by an intimate partner.

Often when domestic abuse is discussed one tends to visualize a battered woman with bruises, broken bones or traces of a physical assault at the hands of the abuser but emotional abuse is just as damaging, often causing irreversible damage to one’s psyche. Sans the physical signs of abuse, emotional abuse if often overlooked even by the person on the receiving end of the abuse.

The goal of an abuser who inflicts emotional abuse is to tear down his or her victim’s self-esteem and personal independence. Often victims of emotional abuse begin to feel that there is no recourse and resign themselves to become a willing participant in the cycle of abuse.

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