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Illinois divorce attorneyDivorce can be a lengthy, difficult process, and by the time you and your ex-spouse go to court to enter your final divorce decree, you are likely ready to move on to the next phase of your life. However, this is often easier said than done. Disentangling yourself from a partnership that defined your life during the years of your marriage can be a complicated, emotionally draining process, and once you do so, you may feel adrift. But by following the tips below, you can not only make it through this difficult time, you can become even stronger:

  1. Take care of yourself. Make sure to practice self-care, taking at least a few minutes each day to do something you enjoy. Maintaining your health and appearance might be the last thing on your mind, but taking care of your body by getting some exercise and spending time for yourself can help you establish a routine that will allow you to move forward as you restructure your life.

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Illinois divorce lawyer, Illinois family law attorneyStudies prove that 50 percent of all American children will experience the divorce of their parents before reaching 18 years of age. It is also estimated that these children will also witness the breakdown of a parent’s second marriage.

Furthermore, the emotional and physical repercussions can be discouraging. On a psychological basis, studies demonstrate that children of divorce may:

  • Exhibit poor school performance,
  • Require the assistance of a psychologist, and
  • Experience a higher rate of emotional or psychological issues.

With regard to physical implications, children of divorce may experience an increase in health-related problems such as a higher propensity to injuries, asthma, and headaches. Studies also reveal that children in single-parent, troubled households are subject to higher rates of physical harm or even death.

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Illinois divorce lawyer, Illinois family law attorneyAgainst all odds, the current divorce rate in the United States has significantly dropped for the third subsequent year. Actually, the percentage of couples dissolving a marriage has reached its lowest point in nearly 40 years but the news certainly does not lessen the stinging emotions of wanting to help a friend in need whose marriage is on the downswing. For those beginning the journey through the divorce process, they often find themselves riddled with guilt, emotional pain and very overwhelmed. They confront safeguarding their children, their families, their self-esteem, their financial future and navigating the legalities of dissolving a marriage. Needless to say, the overall process can be daunting but if you consider yourself a true friend there are ways to help.

The Art of Listening

Even though you may believe you are truly listening, chances are you are not totally in tune with your friend’s emotions. Divorce can be compared to a death and at this time do not simply agree with your friend’s feelings and observations of the marriage gone wrong but just lend a shoulder, listen and acknowledge their emotions but most importantly, stop talking.

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Illinois divorce attorney, Illinois family law attorneyIn the United States, it is projected that one out of every two marriages will end in divorce. The majority of these divorces will involve children. With the focus generally lain on the parents, one may wonder just how divorce is viewed through the eyes of a child caught somewhere in between.

Dear Mom and Dad,

We are facing divorce. I find myself one of the 1.5 million children who deal with the loss of a family every year. Although researchers find that only a small percentage of us will experience serious repercussions, my world is now lost.

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