Although there is a dispute about divorce rates in the United States, it is common knowledge that many people that enter into marriage end up getting a divorce. Still, that does not mean that everyone in a marriage is in a happy relationship. Some couples remain married only in name, but they are no longer as happy as they once were. This is a phenomenon known as invisible divorce, and it is very important that individuals recognize when they are involved in one.
What Is Invisible Divorce?
An invisible divorce is a marriage in which the two spouses are married in name only. They no longer share the affection they once did, and may not share the matrimonial bonds that kept them as a loving couple. Instead, the relationship resembles something more like roommates or co-workers. In many instances, spouses in this situation find that they still love their spouse, particularly if they have children together. However, the type of love they now feel is different than the feelings they had when they were married.
So, when two couples are in an invisible divorce, what is the problem? After all, the spouses are not fighting and arguing, so why go through a lengthy and possibly costly divorce procedure? The answer is because, just like people going through an actual divorce, individuals in an invisible divorce are not happy. Sometimes, one or both spouses do not even realize that they are unhappy, or they know they are, but do not want to go to the trouble of getting a divorce....